What is my main goal in raising my children? On a day-to-day basis, it seems that I mostly strive to change their behavior. My primary focus, however, should not be to just change my children’s behavior but to bring them to a saving faith in Jesus Christ to change their hearts. (Rom. 10:1) Only God can change hearts. (Dt. 30:6) I need them to know that the ONLY way to redemption is through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ and neither my efforts as their mother nor their efforts to “act good” will accomplish that. (Is. 64:6) Long lasting changes in behavior can and will happen to the truly regenerate and although I may desire changed behavior in myself, my husband or my children, I cannot accomplish this on my own. Jesus is the only way. (John 14:6)
My problem? I do discipline my children. Why? To change their behavior. That is very reflective of my humanistic, psychological worldview (thanks to B.F. Skinner and all the others that followed him). How does human behavior truly change? Through the loving act of a Sovereign God who draws us to himself that we might be saved, re-born and regenerated. What human agency is used to accomplish this? The preaching of Christ Jesus. (Romans 10:17)
Lord, I pray today that you will change my mind, enlighten my heart and send me running to you and your Word as I seek to raise my children for your glory. I put my faith and trust in you, Almighty Savior. Act in my heart today. Amen.
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